The only love worthy of a name is unconditional love – the love that is given freely without expectation of return. It is the lowest acceptable expression of love, for in truth conditional love is really still in the fear bandwidth. Unconditional love isn’t an emotional opinion but a measurable force that binds our universe together, right down to the cells in our bodies, for our universe is made of love. It has no conditions or limitations and is unfettered by the restrictions of attachment and expectation, where we let our loved ones be themselves without us twisting them to fit into our image; we love others for who they are, not who we want them to be.
Unconditional love is without reservation; open to the truth, heart connecting, free of judgment, respectful and considerate; I see you and I love you freely and unconditionally. Loving for the pure enjoyment of loving, because we love to love, and we do not seek love, validation or approval from outside of self; we have no expectations to our love being received, yet we are always mindful to cause no harm, to remain aware, responsible and accountable for the effect our energy has upon our sphere of influence. Just like the moon, sun, stars and trees that are just on for everyone, when we allow our love to flow out to everyone and everything, just because we can, we become very natural.
Unconditional love is first generated from within; from our wellspring of self love. It is an essential ingredient in our setting strong clear loving boundaries; to only open to energies and frequencies of unconditional love and above, out of self love and respect; to gain and maintain our clarity and integrity that we may be of greater service to all that is. Our motive for loving is love based and unconditional; pure of intention and motive for the upliftment of humanity and to create more love and harmony upon the planet.
Unconditional love holds all the magic of ‘greet anew’, where we acknowledge that it is everyone’s divine birthright to experience the same limitless creative potential of unconditional love; where we are open and willing through compassion to take another as they are in each new moment; to hold the vision of growth and expansion, to be pleasantly surprised; yet to also be accepting, compassionate and non-attached when another chooses to remain the same; we simply set our boundaries appropriately and accordingly.
In our inmost being, we are all completely lovable because spirit is love. Beyond what anyone can make us think or feel about ourselves, our unconditioned spirit stands, shining with a love nothing can tarnish and a beauty far greater than we have known. It is not how much we do, but how much love we put into the doing that matters. It is only when we give joyfully, without hesitation or thought of gain, can we truly know what love means. Love is as love does.
BIO
Jenny Parker has studied the healing process and accelerated human change for over 25 years. This knowing and wisdom is put to use in her work as a coach and mentor, teacher, writer and inspirational speaker. For more info go to www.heartforce.com.au or email